Nigerian broadcaster Alhaja Kaola has opened up about what she described as one of the most painful experiences of her marriage, alleging that her husband once denied being the father of one of their children.
The broadcaster made the claims while recounting what she said were deeply distressing experiences during the relationship, including an alleged incident involving the public release of an intimate video recorded during a private moment between them.
According to Kaola, the alleged incident caused her significant emotional pain, particularly because she claimed the man with whom she had children was responsible for recording and releasing the video publicly.
She maintained that the incident was not her wrongdoing, expressing anguish over what she described as a betrayal of trust within the marriage.
“It is the day that pained me the most. The man I gave birth to children for—not just any children, but the child I bore—claimed he was not the father,” she reportedly said while recounting the experience.
Kaola further alleged that the same man recorded an intimate moment between them and subsequently released the video publicly without her consent.
In another revelation, the broadcaster claimed that she had to pay her husband money before they could engage in sexual intimacy, describing the arrangement as an experience that left her feeling as though she was financially purchasing his willingness to be intimate with her.
“It is like someone buying a man, because before my husband agrees to sleep with me, I must pay him money,” she said.
She alleged that the payments were made regularly, sometimes through two or three different channels, and were handled through bank transactions rather than direct cash payments.
“Week by week, every week I see money I pay through two or three channels. He doesn’t even take that money in cash. Before we start anything, or after we finish, we enter our cars and go into the bank. Or I write a cheque and call the account officer,” she reportedly stated.
The broadcaster said the experiences left her shocked and emotionally hurt, adding that there were details about the relationship that many people did not know.
Despite the alleged difficulties, Kaola expressed her belief that her life remained subject to God’s plans and destiny.
Her account has brought attention to sensitive issues surrounding trust, privacy and financial arrangements within intimate relationships. Allegations involving the non-consensual recording or distribution of intimate material also raise serious concerns about personal privacy and the potential legal consequences of sharing such content without consent.
However, the claims concerning the marriage and the alleged release of the video have not been independently established in the information available for this report. The husband’s response was not included in the account provided.
